Sunday, April 4, 2021
Decisive is Always A Win!
I have decreased my desire to "help" people who need to be helped. I finally accepted that my responsibilities do not lie in saving the world, just my own. And, anything or anyone that comes into my space to threaten stability does not belong in my universe.
Period.
Over time, I have had to learn to maintain my boundaries. And, I have had to learn to simply not tolerate mess. My life is beautiful.
I can agree when you know what you want.
It's shows up in your life.
Period.
No questions asked.
You make decisions.
And, move on.
Part of the journey through myself has been me finding me at the core of my being and honoring the most authentic part of my internal self.
Rebirth.
New Life.
New Meaning.
New Purpose.
New Authenticity.
New Love.
New Joy.
New Happiness.
New Peace.
It's a wonderful feeling to be in my own authentic space in the universe:).
Wednesday, May 13, 2020
$5,000.00 in Backyard Upgrades For 109 KRISTI PATH!!!
$5,000.00 in CLOSING, 1 YR WARRANTY, and a 30 DAY LEASE PERIOD (If Needed)! KRISTI IS LIVING. CHARMING. DIFFERENTLY in this 4BD, 3BA 2257 SQFT with Custom Wood Panel Ceilings & Engineered Hardwood Floors! The Gourmet Kitchen has Floor to Ceiling Cabinets, Granite Countertops, a Beautiful Island, and a Decorative Tile Backsplash. The almost Acre Lot is Perfect to host Sports & Family Gatherings from the Outdoor Kitchen. 5 Minutes to Kirby Lake. Disclaimer: Furniture is Virtually Staged.
Contact Rashida at 214-471-5424 or rashidatherealtor1@gmail.com for a Showing appointment!
Friday, May 1, 2020
COVID-19 MORTGAGE MARKET CHANGES
Friday, April 3, 2015
5.5.12, My Fabulous Mentors;-)!
Be love,
Rashida
Monday, November 24, 2014
Dr. John Gray On Staying Love And The Importance of Dealing With Negative Emotions
3.7.12, Dr. John Gray On Negative Emotions Importance
Repost
Chopra Center Radio Interview with Dr. John Gray 8/11/11
"Negative emotions are a part of the authentic self also. But, they are messages that are starting to tell you that something is off. They are letting you know that your are losing connection with your soul. You are losing your authentic self. its the signal to let you know that something is wrong. So, you can take heed and get back in line with the authentic you. "be good feel good do good"....when we Start to fall off balance and you are believing something that is not true, that is the indicator which is what brings you back into balance. The awareness of negative emotions is always important.
There was the illusion that enlightenment would mean equanimity with no negative emotions. What enlightenment is, is an astute clear aware conscious of negative emotions so you can quickly bring yourself back into balance. Its kind of like walking on a tight rope, if the wind blows even a master will tip, but then he comes right back to balance. The key is to be able to know when your are tipping so you can come back into balance rather than to continue tipping and fall over.
what u can feel u can heal...how do u work through the emotional blocks that keep u from being a loving person. Working through the dark knight of the soul? once you are there people thinks that is it. No, That is the illusion. Now that you are there with consciousness a white screen every unresolved issue from childhood to adulthood begins to come forth. It does not eliminate your suffering it makes you aware of your suffering. Buddha talks abt the first step of enlightenment is higher conscious until you become 1 with the all and from that place you can no longer ignore that is inside….Going to the feelings is not just enough...but going through them and processing them, working through your feelings and reconciling them back to a place of greater insight hope, greater forgiveness, and greater love; Training the self to go through that process and get back to a state of true authenticity is where the treasure truly is.
It was a journey that he had to go through so that finding the ability to love in relationships, which later allowed him to gain gender intelligence. Then seeing that the things we consider to be a snake is really just a stick. And, its a golden stick. Its a blessing its something that we can gain from."
xoxo
Thursday, November 13, 2014
This Tim Sykes Guy...BS or No BS?!
Tuesday, November 11, 2014
HAPPY VETERANS DAY!!!
Tuesday, November 4, 2014
Bankers vs Consultants=HILarious
This is one thing I know for sure about myself. My passion is Finance. My career Finance.....and even if working in a consulting capacity, the bottom underlining recurrent for me.....Finance. It's been ABSOLUTELY AMAZING to experience consultants try to implement finance processes, systems, and improvements.
Do I know the numbers?....meaning balance sheets, cap ratios, income & asset statements...Yup! My strength just tends to be in knowing financial laws naturally...don't ask me how...lol, I just do.
Anyway....Now, I see why there is the staunch difference in Financiers and Consultants in Bschool and the long history in the battle of who means more lol.
Finance people are about bottom lines. Period. End Result Figure. Consultants on the other hand......hmmmm how shall I say it, "How's the Air Up There?" Consultants have a view of creating value slowly over the long term and "eventually" seeing a return.....on the other hand Finance Geeks run screaming the Black Eyed Peas song, "Iiiiiii Waaaannnnt It Noooooow!"....lol, AT THE TOP OF OUR LUNGS! Lmbo
Hey, I guess that's why we end up working in the sector we do. And, add to it these huge the technology companies jumping into "Emerging Markets"....dude....I guarantee you it makes for an interesting mix that add Humor 24/7 lol...At least I don't Get the deer in the headlights look anymore when I am talking to the Consultants. I can at least act like I know what I am talking about and hit up a happy hour without stumbling all over myself lol.
Anyway....the "how's the air up there"...Is the constant pop up comic that comes into my head as I am trying to explain how maximizing my time means time value of money.....I tend to pause a lot while I am speaking to them and ask them, "Does That Make Sense?"
That is the main question I use day in and day out....lol means that they are very abstract, aloof, vague, and general. And, THEY CAN MAKE ONE HELL OF A POWERPOINT, LOL....everything that a Finance person is NOT.
Lmbo at the "dude, your blackberry is like 3yrs Old!" That's Like an Android to the IP6!!! Lmao....ROTFL!
Wednesday, October 22, 2014
Top 10 Websites 4 Finance Basics!
THE PASSIONS (Parenting And Finance)
XOXO
Tuesday, October 21, 2014
SINGLE MAMI'S RULE: THE TOP 5 TIPS 4 NAVIGATING SINGLE MAMIHOOD!
Here are the TOP 5 TIPS I learned over the Past 7 Years that work hands down to make your life easier.
Rule #1 Thou Shalt Recognize Life Will Never Be The Same!
Rule #2 Thou Shalt Pinch A Damn Penny****COINS, HUNNIE COINS***
When you become a HAWT Mami every penny counts, because they have so many needs. You don't have to be cheap, however you have to be financially conscious of every penny that you have. In the process of that you want to slowly build up an emergency fund for those unexpected occurrences that happen b/c trust me, there will ALWAYS be Something Unexpected (i.e. trips to the dr that may turn into a week long hospital stay, getting sick, etc.)
Rule #3 Thou Shalt Build a Support System!
Rule #4 Thous Shalt Find a Bomb Azz Babysitter
Rule #5 Thou Shalt Realize Shopping Will Never Be The Same!
XOXO
Saturday, April 20, 2013
Harvard Business Review on Leadership: The Discipline Of BuildingCharacter
We form our character in defining moments because we commit to irreversible courses of action that shape our personal and professional identities. we reveal something new about us to ourselves and others because defining moment uncover something that had been hidden or crystallize something that had been only partially know and we test ourselves because we discover whether we will live up to our personal ideals for only pay them lip service.
Specifically they are able to take time out from the chain of managerial tasks that consumes their time and undertake a process of probing self in query a process that is more often carried out on the run rather than in quiet seclusion. they're able to look below the busy surface of their daily lives and we focus on their core values and principles. once uncovered those values and principles renew their sense of purpose at work and act as a springboard for shrewd pragmatic politically astute action.
By repeating this process again and again throughout their work lives these executives are able to craft an authentic and strong identity based on their own rather than someone else's understanding of what is right and in this way they begin to make the transition from being a manager to becoming a leader.
Who am I? defining moments for individuals.
The most basic type of defining moment demands that managers resolve an urgent issue of personal identity that has serious implications for their careers two "rights" present themselves each one representing a possible and usually attractive life choice and there in lies the challenge there is no one right answer right is set against right."
Page 91-93
Tuesday, April 16, 2013
♥The Road Less Traveled...& Beyond!♥
Saturday, April 13, 2013
Friday, April 12, 2013
♥4.12.13, Weight Training Update♥
This is just the part of the journey where I am frustrated because I am wanting to see more results sooner. Well, I need to be more patient with myself. I am literally working on transforming my body. And, defining muscle groups I have never seen before. My Arms are Ripped! Lol, anyway....its a journey. I seriously started lifting about 1 month ago. Thus, I am pretty satisfied with what I am seeing so far. I am just ready to take it to the next level and see the stubborn body fat come off.
I keep here other athletes say, the goal is to be better than you were the day before and push your self. And, for me, this is the final culmination of transforming my physical body into the woman I want to be. This has been a goal of mines since I was 15 Years Old, so I am definitely working over time to get there. I just didn't realize the challenge that it would entail after having a child. Even with all the working out I have done since he was born, my body is still having to shift through some major hurdles to get that Pre Pregnancy Body Completely back. Its doable and being done. know so many Mami's who have done it, and are doing it...at first my goal was always to maintain my fit physique. It takes on a different meaning, when you are talking about parading on a stage in 3 inc heels in a 2 Piece Bikini.
Tuesday, April 9, 2013
4.9.13, iFinance: So U Wanna Buy A House? Part 2
1) you are required to submit at least 30-60 Days of asset statements....meaning your bank account statement and your 401(k) and investment accounts.
2) You have to have at least two months reserves of your PITIA payments meaning (principal, interest, taxes, insurance, association fees).
3) you are required to explain any ins unusual large deposits that are 25% higher than your normal monthly income in a letter of explanation.
4) You have to have a established a normal, consistent banking relationship that shows your behavior with money...(meaning, if you constantly overdraw your account, it will show in the bank statements and no bank is going to lend money$100k+ to buy a home to someone who can't manage the $5k Gross income they make a month).
5) You will be required to put some skin in the game (i.e. put money down). For FHA loans, the required amount is 3.5% of the purchase price, for Conventional loans it's 20% of the purchase price). So, if you want to buy conventional or FHA, I suggest you get to saving those assets.
Monday, April 8, 2013
4.8.13, iFinancial Fitness: So U Wanna Buy A Home ? Pt 1
Here's a few tips to consider if you are wanting to buy a house. I get several questions about what can I do if I have challenging credit and I want to buy a house. So, I put together these five tips that is a quick read that you can take into account as you work towards your goal of homeownership.
1) You need at least three credit tradeline on your credit report that has been have been established over the period of the last two years i.e. furniture your car note and a credit card that's a good mix of trade lines
2) Also those trayliners need to show a 24 month history of no late payments if there are late payments if you are required to submit a letter of explanation explaining why your payment was late if it was due to a hardship financial difficulties or things like.
3) Any derogatory credit will have to be explained in a letter of exclamation in addition to the fact that any collections, judgments, bankruptcies, and late payment I should be resolved by the time you apply for a mortgage.
4) Any student loan payments that are listed on your credit report are considered in your debt to income calculations for the mortgage so if you have 25 separate student loan payments I would highly encourage you to seek loan consolidation for your educational debt.
5) Ideally you need a minimum 620 credit score in order to be considered for a mortgage so use the following steps mentioned above to work on your credit if you have some challenges.
Friday, April 5, 2013
4.5.13, DRINK UP…10 REASONS WHY LEMON WATER IS GOOD FOR YOUR BODY AND SOUL~ClaireCharters
Posted on October 17, 2012 by Guest Contributor
This article was written by guest author Claire Charters, www.amodernzengirl.com
“When life gives you lemons… slice them, squeeze them, mix them in a cup of water and drink first thing in the morning for radiant health”
Oh how I love waking up to the simple luxury of a glass of lemon water, if it is a hot summer morning I will have a glass of water, the juice of half a lemon over some ice and garnished with a few slices of lemon. If it is in winter I warm up with a mug of hot water, which contains the juice from half a lemon.
Lemons are jam packed with natural vitamins and minerals that are key to your inner and outer beauty. For a radiant glow and optimum health greet your morning with a glass of lemon water. If you’re still not convinced then read my top ten reasons on how lemon water can benefit you today
It’s a natural energiser
A hot cup of water with a few slices of lemon will hydrate your body leaving you feeling revitalised and refreshed
Boosts you’re immune system
Lemons are high in Vitamin C and potassium.
It gives you a clear and glowing complexion
Lemon helps to remove toxins from the blood which clears your skin and gives you a natural glow. The vitamin C helps repair wrinkles and blemishes and the water hydrates, nourishes and plumps out your skin leaving you with a fresh youthful complexion.
It helps remove toxins
Drinking lemon water is cleansing for your body, the citric acid in lemons helps regulate the enzymes in your body, allowing your body to flush out toxins much more effectively.
Is a natural antiseptic
Great for fighting colds and relieving a sore throat. It also helps with respiratory problems and breathing problems such as asthma.
It is good for your Soul
Drinking lemon water nourishes your body, by taking the time to honour your health you are looking after your overall wellbeing.
Balances pH
Believe it or not….Lemons alkalise your body and an alkaline body is a healthy body
Helps with weight loss
The pectin fibre in lemons help ward off hunger cravings. Also it has been proven that if you have a higher alkaline diet you will lose weight easier
Helps digestion
Warm lemon water stimulates digestion, making it easier to remove toxins from the body.
Acts as a gentle, natural diuretic
Drinking lemon water helps flush out unwanted toxins by increasing the rate of urination in your body.
Online media personality, holistic lifestyle coach, author and entrepreneur Claire Charters founded the holistic lifestyle blog Serene Wellness. Claire works hard to create a wholesome path to wellness through her writing along with her unique tours and retreats. Her articles on health, wellness and spirituality can be found on various sites. She has a growing community of people following her on her blog, Facebook and twitter. She also run’s free courses which are designed to inspire people to start living their best holistic life. Read more about Claire..
Thursday, April 4, 2013
Finance....School....School...School.........
So, here we go. It has been a very loonnnnnnnnggg 8 weeks since I started my 1st Master's Program in Finance. Half way through...light bulbs have started to go off signaling that I felt like I was going against the grain. And, I am learning NPV, M1, 2, & 3....and Bond Pricing and I am sitting up here thinking to myself....how does this relate to my profession now? And, more importantly is investment finance really what I want to spend the rest of my life doing.
Because, in this class, it almost feels unnatural and like I am trying to hard to comprehend the theories. Now, I know I love finance. And, lately, I have been thinking, perhaps I should tailor the course I take to my strengths and add maybe one to 2 investment courses on the back end. am more interested in alternative assets, opposed to equities and derivatives. Alternative meaning Real Estate and because I already invested so much time energy and effort into those aspects of my career, it makes sense that I would cater my curriculum to helping me build those strengths.
The other day when I mentioned that I was interested in investment banking when I was speaking with a Senior Recruiter from JP Morgan & Chase; he asked me if I had already sat for my Series 7 & 63? I answered no. then said I had my licenses are Real Estate & Mortgage Finance. At that moment, I realized that I did not want to sit for those licenses, which also indicated and reiterated that I had no desire to learn a whole new language in regards to investment finance.....real estate investment finance, yes......just investments....I dont think so. The beauty in it is that I am realizing this early on.....my friend Richard Battle-Baxter just posted a video about his MBA Journey at Cornell C/O 2014.
You can check it out here: http://www.mba.com/why-b-school/typical-mba-candidates/richard-battle-baxter.aspx.
Its so funny, I have been feeling like this for the last 4 weeks. And, I was not sure if I was ready to accept that what I thought I wanted when I began this journey had changed. And, THAT IS OK! After watching his video, it just reiterates that life happens and things change. And, what we thought we may have wanted at first may not necessarily be what we want now. Its cool.
I have found that I am very good at improving processes and systems for companies. I also have found that there is a market for Real Estate Consulting that has evolved over the last few years. So, it is easy now for me to slowly build what I am looking for in my career and ultimately make a decision on what will fit my needs the best. Now, the focus is to just get through this program successfully
and cater my courses to my interest and not waste money, time, energy, and effort on stuff that is not a good fit for me. Especially, since I pay for it out of pocket.
Thus, after this course is over., My curriculum will be centered heavily around real estate & management. And, I am at peace with that! Amen!
Monday, March 11, 2013
♥Modified internal rate of return♥iMeMarch♥
Contents[hide] |
[edit]Problems with the IRR
[edit]Calculation of the MIRR
[edit]Example
| Year | Cash flow |
|---|---|
| 0 | -1000 |
| 1 | -4000 |
| 2 | 5000 |
| 3 | 2000 |
[edit]Comparing projects of different sizes
[edit]References
- ^ Lin, S. A. Y., "The modified internal rate of return and investment criterion," The Engineering Economist 21(4), 1976, 237-247.
- ^ Beaves, R. G., "Net present value and the rate of return: Implicit and explicit reinvestment assumptions," The Engineering Economist 33, 1988, 275-302.
- ^ Internal Rate of Return: A Cautionary Tale
- ^ Shull, D. M., "Efficient capital project selection through a yield-based capital budgeting technique," The Engineering Economist 38(1), 1992, 1-18.
- ^ Hajdasinski, M., "Remarks in the context of 'The case for the generalized net present value formula'," The Engineering Economist 40(2), 1995, 201-210.



















